Another Proud Moment

Ok, I know that I have posted about my kids probably too much over the past week, but it is my blog, so you'll have to put up with it...sorry. I want to take a moment to give a shout out to my incredible daughter McKenzie.

On Friday, her mother and I went to her school for the end of the year 6th grade award ceremony, where she received an outstanding award for language arts. As she walked across the gym floor to receive her trophy, I was as proud as proud can be.

As the award ceremony continued, I watched her closely as she sat among her friends in the bleachers, and I couldn't help but wonder where the past 12 years have gone.

Both of my kids are at an age where I realize my parenting style has to change. Up to this point, a parent in many respects has to control their child's coming and going. There comes a point, however, when control will serve only to push them away, so you have to change in how you lead them. The change is not in principle so much as it is in application.

Every year as they get older, I have to let go and give them more freedom and independence. For me this is incredibly hard, especially when you see them making a move that may cause them pain. My first reaction is to shelter them and control their every move, but doing so will only keep them from learning what they truly need to learn in life.

Oh God...Please Help Me!!!